It’s been a whole year since I last posted here. It’s been a very difficult year. With puberty in full swing we’ve had issues with increased aggression and changes in medications. At 5’7″ and 180 lbs. he now towers over me and can easily out muscle me. There have been more broken windows, broken appliances, broken doors, broken beds…
And yet the news isn’t all bad. He continues to type words on the computer and in his Dynavox. He’s discovered Google and YouTube and regularly types in long lists of keywords to find things to watch and see. He’s picked up a few more chores (aka living skills) including filling the dishwasher, putting away his own clothing and even becoming independent in toileting.
The latest report from his speech therapist:
I also wanted to fill you in on the reading and writing program that I started him this year. Both myself and his reading teacher have been working with him on it and it’s been a huge success. I put together a literacy binder that has pictures of functional every day objects and corresponding words. Some of the categories include; food, leisure activities, numbers, shapes, household objects, appliances, etc. We have been gradually increasing pages since the beginning of the school year.
He began by using his keyboard to type in a word, listen and match it to the corresponding picture. We then moved to showing him the word and having him match to the picture. He is now able to type many of the words when shown only the picture. In many cases, he is able to type in just the beginning part of the word. This has given me a great opportunity to work with him on using the word predictor feature on his device. He’s really starting to catch on!
All good news. After a rough time at camp this summer we were thrilled to find that his return to school went spectacularly. The staff seems to be a perfect match, clearly ‘getting him’ from the first day. It’s awesome to see the looks on their faces when we drop him off at school. You can tell that they’re genuinely happy to see him and his eyes twinkle with reciprocal affection.
I’m grateful to have made it through what I hope will be the worst of this transition period into manhood. And I’m looking forward to the coming year and all the progress he’ll make.